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The Emotion News Blog June 10, 2015

The emotional potency of peers during adolescence

If you had to choose one event that epitomizes your experience as a teenager, what would it be? For me, I immediately think of that moment at the school dance while I was dancing with my middle school crush to November Rain by Guns n Roses. Our slow dancing skills were passable during the first […]

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Filed Under: Behavior, Science

The Influence People Blog June 8, 2015

Drive for Show, Putt for Dough

My wife is a heck of a golfer. She’s the poster child for the power of golf lessons and practice. About 10 years ago she was a very average golfer, shooting between 100 and 110. After years of lessons, practice and consistent play she’s transformed her game to the point where she consistently shoots in the low 80s and occasionally the upper 70s. Last year she had a pressure match and had the best round of the year. Her pressure was playing 18 holes with rock legend Alice Cooper who happens to be a scratch golfer. That day Cooper shot a 75 and Jane had a season best 78. Needless to say, he was impressed!There’s an old saying in golf – “Drive for show, putt for dough.” Crushing a drive off of the tee is impressive but to be a great golfer it comes down to play around the green, particularly putting. That’s so because putting accounts for approximately 40%-50% of a golfer’s score. For example, a par four hole may be anywhere from 400-475 yards. A good golfer will reach the green in two shots then most likely take two more strokes to putt the ball 20-30 feet into the hole. Persuasion is a lot like putting. It doesn’t seem like something that should take too much time or practice because it usually comes at the end of a long process. However, when viewed as critical as putting, it deserves a tremendous amount of time and attention.Daniel Pink, author of To Sell is Human, cited a study where more than 7,000 businesspeople were asked how much of their time was spent in non-sales selling (i.e., persuading). The answer was 40%! That’s right, apart from selling, businesspeople estimate they spend 40% of their time, or 3.2 hours a day, trying to persuade other people to do things.If you spent 40% of your day (or more for salespeople and leaders) engaged in a particular activity wouldn’t it make sense to devote time and effort to improving in that area? Of course it would!Great golfers spend an inordinate amount of time on the putting green because tournaments are usually won and lost on crucial putts. If your job requires you to sell, work with others or work through others, then you’re like the pro golfer. You should be working on your putting (persuading). Leaders – Whether you’re a supervisor, manager or senior level executive, your success depends on the performance of your team. Your ability to get them to buy into your vision and execute it enthusiastically is vital to your success.Salespeople – Success for you culminates in a “Yes” from prospects and current clients. Understanding how to communicate in a way that makes “Yes” come easier and faster will impact your income via commissions earned.Not in sales or management – Undoubtedly you still need assistance and cooperation. You may need coworkers, suppliers, vendors or even your boss to do certain things. Knowing how to ethically influence these groups can make your days much, much easier.At home – Life is much nicer and pleasant at home when your spouse, roommates, children and neighbors more willingly go along with what you propose. Whether you’re looking for professional success or personal happiness, I believe understanding how to ethically persuade others will go a long way – longer than any drive off the tee – to help you achieve that success and happiness.Drive for show but persuade for dough!Brian Ahearn, CMCT® Chief Influence Officer influencePEOPLE Helping You Learn to Hear “Yes”.

Filed Under: golf advice, Influence, Leadership, Psychology, Science, Training

The Humintell Blog June 3, 2015

Humans May Have Less Hair So Emotions Are Easier To Read

Researchers believe humans evolved to have less hair on their faces than their primate relatives so it’s easier to read their moods. Humans are often considered hairless apes, but scientists are still debating why we’re not covered in hair like our primate relatives. No one has pinpointed exactly why this is, but evolutionary reasons include moving from cooler to warmer climates, or to free ourselves from lice and other parasites.

A third reason, proposed by neurobiologist Mark Changizi, suggests we lost our hair so it’s easier for others to read our expressions. Particularly, how our skin color changes and what it means, such as blushing. Humans are trichromats, which means we have three cones allowing us to detect light in the medium wavelength including a red and green mix. Known as color signaling, even the slightest changes in skin color are picked up by another person. These changes happen with varying levels of oxygen in the blood. If our faces were covered in hair, we wouldn’t be able to see these changes.

The fact that humans walk upright means more of our bodies are exposed, which explains why we’re also almost entirely hairless. Most mammals on the other hand, such as dogs, horses and bears, are dichromats with only two cones, and are only able to see short and long light wavelengths from blue and yellow blends. According to Changizi’s research, which involved 97 different primate species, the dichromats were furrier, while the trichromats had much more skin visible.

It’s possible, color signaling wasn’t the original reason humans began shedding their hairy exterior, and instead became a byproduct of it.

Humans May Have Less Hair So Emotions Are… by GeoBeats

Filed Under: culture, Nonverbal Behavior, Science

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