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The Social Influence Consulting Group Blog June 8, 2014

Practical Persuasion

The more you know about Persuasion the more you see it.  I have seen a couple of advertisements recently on television.  Some good, some could be improved.  So here is you test.  I have put a couple of videos into the post and see if you can see what is good and what would be done to improve them.

OPSM Ultra Wide Digital Retinal Scan

Below is the OPSM advertisement for their Ulta Wide Digital Retinal Scan.  I like the use of CONTRAST but I think something could be done to improve the persuasive of the advertisement.

HINT: It has to do with the order and the use of SCARCITY.

ANSWER: Instead of starting with what competitors do and show how much more the Retinal Scan offers, what do you think the impact would have been if they had started with the wider scan and then retracted to show how much their competitors are missing?  It is a small thing but one I think would have been very impactful.

ADF Recruitment Ad

Tell me what two principles the ADF are using in this advertisement.  One obvious and one not so obvious.

Answer: Obviously the first is Consensus showing you what many other Australians are doing by joining up.  The second is that of Consistency, tapping into people’s identity and labeling setting to show if you are this type of person then the ADF is for you.  Subtle and sophisticated but if you are that type of person, very effective.

Audi – What Defines Us

Finally Audi – they are diving deep into Liking as you can see yourself as the teenager.  Consistency because of the things we stand for.  Scarcity because of the things we have lost, regrets we have, things we could lose in the future.  Finally Contrast – well because not many car makers have taken this route before saying that what you do defines you – of course it does – but in this case drive an Audi and remove all the regrets you ever had a kid – why?  Because you can!

Very clever.

Type your ideas in the comments box below.  I will provide my comments on Thursday.

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Filed Under: Behavior, Influence, nudge

The Influence People Blog June 2, 2014

Thinking Is Some Of The Hardest Work There Is

Henry Ford, founder of the Ford Motor Company, once said, “Thinking is some of the hardest work there is, which is probably why so few people engage in it.” Thinking may not be like manual labor but for those of you who engage in deep thought you know it’s tiring! But why is that the case? Here are a couple of reasons: “The brain represents only about 2% of most people’s body weight, yet it accounts for about 20% of the body’s total energy use.” – from Brain Rules by John Medina.“The brain consumes 300% more caloric intake when engaged in cognitive evaluation and logical thinking than when in the automatic mode.” – from The 7 Triggers to Yes by Russ GrangerBottom line – that small piece of grey matter in our skulls requires a lot of energy and when used to capacity it leaves us quite tired. We do what we can to avoid working harder than we have to so Henry Ford might have been correct about our aversion to the hard work of thinking. Or perhaps our ability to reduce our thinking and save energy is a survival mechanism.Whether it’s laziness or survival, one thing is for sure, when we can think less and conserve energy we usually do it. This is important to understand if you want to become a better persuader. In March 2009, ABC News featured an article titled Expert Advice Shuts Your Brain Down. Here’s my Cliff’s Notes version of the article:Two dozen Emory University students are given complicated financial problems to solve. They’re hooked to brain imaging equipment so their neural activity can be observed. As they try to figure out answers to the problems their brains are hard at work! Eventually a professor from Emory University is introduced to the class, and it’s made known he’s also an advisor to the U.S. Federal Reserve. In other words, he’s a very smart financial guy. As he begins to give the students advice, even advice he knows is bad, their brains “flat lined” because they stopped critically thinking. So what went on there? From the perspective of the psychology of persuasion, the principle of authority was engaged. This principle of influence tells us people defer to those with superior knowledge or wisdom when making decisions.I like to share the ABC account because it illustrates an important fact about persuasion – it’s not pop psychology or some fad. When a principle like authority is engaged correctly it causes physiological changes in the brain and that’s part of the reason the principles of influence can be so effective when it comes to persuading others.Consider the Emory University students. Left on their own, they had to work hard to come up with answers. However, when a credentialed individual who is viewed as much smarter than they are comes into the equation everything changes. They can cease from the hard work of thinking!Each of us does this at different times. This is why we pay accountants to do our taxes, lawyers to defend us in court or stockbrokers to invest for us. We don’t want to do the heavy lifting associated with each of those mental activities. How does this understanding help you be a more effective persuader? Two ways.First, the more someone understands your expertise the less critical they will be of your ideas and recommendations. That’s not to say everyone will do what you want nor am I advocating trying to get people “brain dead” in order to persuade them. However, when they understand your expertise they will more readily accept your position just as the Emory University students did with the professor. You can establish your credentials on your business card (title and designations earned), through letters of reference and introduction, speaker bios, years in business, how you dress, the car you drive, etc. Each of these can indicate success which usually carries with it the assumption of some expertise.The second way to engage this is using outside sources. You may be an expert or maybe you’ve not established expertise yet. Either way, when you bring outside sources – other experts, graphs, charts, stats, etc., into the persuasion equation, you begin to bring authority into the mix and people will more readily accept what you’re sharing. How will you apply this concept? Next time you go into a situation where you need to be persuasive make sure people know your credentials up front. Doing so after the fact does little good because the person you’re attempting to persuade might have already made up his or her mind. If you go this route, do so by engaging someone to introduce you either in person or by email. When you do this, make sure the person making the introduction knows the most important credentials you have.The other thing you want to do is look for valid stats, charts, quotes or other references that show you’ve done your homework and there’s respected support for what you propose.Here’s an example of putting this into practice. I’m in the insurance industry and work for an insurance company. Quite often insurance agents will call their underwriter for more in-depth understanding of coverages or insurance provisions. An underwriter might answer the agent’s question off the cuff because they know the answer. However, if it’s not what the agent wants to hear the agent might contend with the underwriter. It’s a good bet the underwriter’s knowledge came from continuing education so why not cite the source of knowledge? Here’s how I would advise an underwriter to answer:“That’s a great question. I remember when I was studying for my CPCU…”Now the answer is not just opinion because it’s backed by the authority of the CPCU Institute.Sometimes seemingly simple things like citing a source or establishing credentials up front can make all the difference in turning a no into a yes.Brian Ahearn, CMCT® Chief Influence Officer influencePEOPLE Helping You Learn to Hear “Yes”.Cialdini “Influence” Series! Would you like to learn more about influence from the experts? Check out the Cialdini “Influence” Series featuring Cialdini Method Certified Trainers from around the world. 

Filed Under: Henry Ford, Influence, Psychology

The Social Influence Consulting Group Blog June 1, 2014

An Enlightening Conversation

During the week I had an enlightening conversation with my kids.  We were driving to one of the many extracurricular activities they are involved in and I mentioned that I needed to go the servo to get some fuel for my car.

Enlightening Conversation My enquiring daughter said “Dad, why is it called a servo?”

I said “Well… servo is short for service station”

She said “Why is it called a service station, all they do is sell petrol?”

I said, “Yeah.  But it wasn’t always like that.  Years ago you used to go to the service station and you could get driveway service, where an attendant would come out, put the petrol in your car, check your tyres, wash your windscreen and provide any advice you might need on additives for your car, suggestions around general maintenance and things like that.  That is why it was called a service station.  They provide a service for your car”.

My daughter then said, “That sounds great.  Why don’t they do that anymore?”

I said “I don’t know sweetie.  I expect it is an extra expense to the owner and with the price of petrol they can’t afford the extra wages”.

A light bulb went off and it got me thinking.  How many things did we used to do, the things that set us apart in our business or industry but we don’t do anymore because we are too busy.  Or maybe we let things slip because everyone else did so it became the new norm and it is no longer expected.

The second enlightening conversation for the week came the next day when I was talking to a guy who is in a service based industry and he said, “Some customers just don’t get it.  They want to stand around and talk but I just don’t have the time”.

I asked what did they want to talk about?  He informed me that they would ask about the new technologies in his field.  The impact this would have on them.  What they needed to do and so on.

Another light bulb went off.

All of these questions were legitimate.  Fair and reasonable questions I thought.  But for the gent I was speaking to his KPIs dictated he needed to do so many tasks in an hour or a day and talking to customers, engaging with them and ensuring future and return business was not one of his KPIs.  So he doesn’t do it and probably much worse he resents his customers for expecting this of him.

The third enlightening conversation came last night when we had some friends over for dinner.  During dinner I mentioned the “servo” conversation.  This sparked all sorts of fond memories and stories of the people we had met over the years.

What was interesting was the ladies at the table exclaimed that they would drive out of their way, right out of their way, to go to a service station that filled up their car, washed their windscreens, etc.

The gents at the table were far less interested in the service but we more interested in the fact their wive’s car would have fuel in it and they wouldn’t have to put it there.

So the impact of the light bulbs?

CONTRAST affords us the opportunity to bring back some aspects of service that have been dropped that will again set us apart.  RECIPROCITY will allow us to invest in others that will enhance our relationships.  It will build a loyal community who will go out of their way for the extra things only we provide – right out of their way.

Hmmm.  Providing a service that is implied in what we do.

A servo that delivers what it is says – service.

I wonder if that will ever take off?  According to my female dinners guests it would be raving success!

P.S. I know servo’s still provide products we can buy and services we can use but compared to the service of yesteryear I don’t they they live up to their brand promise.

Would you drive to a servo that had an attendant?  

What service can you bring back to invest in your community – not because you “have to” but because it will take you and/or business to the next level.

 

 

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Filed Under: Influence, Reciprocity

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