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Body Language Tells It Like It Is

Many of you probably know who Jodi Arias is and for those of you who don’t, she is being tried for the murder of her ex-boyfriend Travis Alexander, which she is now claiming was self-defense.

Dr. Drew  and HLN TV are reporting on Arias’ trial and with the aid of Humintell Affiliate and body language expert, Janine Driver, there seems to be more to the story than Jodi is letting on.

“It’s interesting she deviates from her baseline,” Driver explained. “We call this ‘norming’ — what is someone’s normal behavior. While she says ‘no’, Dr. Drew, you may have noticed she subtly nods her head ‘yes’.”
 

The video clip, from the courtroom, shows that there are some interesting Hot Spots displayed by Jodi. 

Emotion vs. Reasoning

What is the role of reason and emotion in decision making?

Green Biz.com  and Mashable, a social media information site, comment on the importance of this question and also go a step farther, delineating which one has a greater impact on behavior.   Why does it matter, you ask.

These are important questions especially in terms of marketing.  So, is it thoughtful reasoning that leads to meaningful attitude change or is it automatic intuition (i.e. emotion driven)?

According to Green Biz, social scientists and philosophers painstakingly build empirical and logical support for their theories on emotion vs. logic, but advertisers go with what works (simply put makes money) and EMOTION works!

Ernest Dichter, a native of Vienna with a doctorate in psychology, became the “father of motivational research,” further advancing the notion that appeals to the subconscious are the key to effective persuasion.

Kare Anderson, a behavioral expert, explains how understanding the science behind the human thought process is crucial to designing an idyllic experience on the web.

She notes that emotion precedes rational thought, and each person reacts differently to certain situations.  If you’re aware of these nuances, you can bring out the best in other people.  The same techniques can be applied to improve design, user experience and our own relationships.

Both Green Biz.com and Mashable, purport that modern marketers impact preferences and decision-making not with arguments, but with emotions.  That is, as soon as a message begins to argue, its chances for success are diminished.

The research suggests that emotions persuade people far more than a good argument backed by rational facts!!

 What do you think of the notion that Emotion beats Facts hands down? 

Your Body’s Fight or Flight Response System

Ever had the hairs on the back of your neck “stand up” while watching a scary movie or when you walk into a freezing cold room in only a t-shirt?

Almost everyone has gotten goose bumps at one point in their life or another, but what exactly are they and why do we get them?

Goose bumps are caused by your body’s nervous system and are part of the body’s “fight or flight” system meaning that, like microexpressions, they are completely involuntary.  They are caused by tightening muscles, which pull body hair into an erect position.

They occur mainly for two reasons: 1. when it’s cold and 2. when someone experiences the emotion of fear.

In animals that have fur, individual hairs on end (“standing up”) in cold weather is a sensible course of action, since the erect hairs can trap air, adding a layer of insulation to protect the animal from the cold.

In the case of fear, goose bumps in an animal with fur causes the animal to look larger, potentially intimidating the predator which is threatening it, giving the animal a chance to run or fight.

In humans, these bumps are a vestigial reflex, left over from a time when humans had more hair; a wide variety of animals demonstrate this interesting reflex in response to certain stimuli.

Remember that emotions are transient, bio-psycho-social reactions to events that have consequences for our welfare and potentially require immediate action (Matsumoto, Frank and Hwang: Nonverbal Communication: Science and Applications).

So next time you get goose bumps, just remember they are a biological, involuntary reaction that is elicited by your body.